Memorial Card Text - January 15

Remember, my darlings, 
The memories we shared
Gathered like treasures
Throughout the years
Think of our laughter, our visits,
The times we embraced.
I'll be there in spirit
When you make a hot cup of tea. 
Life is fleeting and precious
With love carrying us through;
Despite the loss and the pain
Love will bring us together again.

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